
The 4th was wonderful – with my boys and my husband. We spent 4 hours in a Chicago neighborhood alley watching and lighting fireworks the likes of which could only compare to a professional city show. My boys loved that aspect of it of course.
I catch myself sometimes when I get stubborn and want to dig in my heals. But I am grateful that now I no longer am an expert on how to lose friends and alienate people because of it.
Being stubborn with myself in the gym pays off – big time.
I am learning to think out of the box and still get what I need / want without causing hardship and headache to others around me.
My imagination is a beautiful thing. Sometimes while at the club spinning I will pretend I am in a race and I try to beat the guy next to me!
Consistency is something I am getting good at with the rules of the house. It is nice that enforcing the rules is so much easier now than it once was.
My husband scored a 36 on a golf course this past weekend and his happiness was thrilling and catching.
Our dog Thor is having worrisome behavioral issues and we are working to teach him that attacking our kids is not acceptable.
Today was a good day.
Tomorrow will be as well.
My youngest went out of town with his girlfriend and her mother yesterday. I did not want him to go when he asked, but then I realized he was already growing up and going so I should let go a little bit and allow him to spread his wings because he really is quite capable.
My oldest should be a comedian. No Really.
I cannot do the mini triathlon I signed up for in August because of my heels. Running is not an activity I can participate in these days so instead I am looking for a good bike race to sign up for.
I catch myself sometimes when I get stubborn and want to dig in my heals. But I am grateful that now I no longer am an expert on how to lose friends and alienate people because of it.
Being stubborn with myself in the gym pays off – big time.
I am learning to think out of the box and still get what I need / want without causing hardship and headache to others around me.
My imagination is a beautiful thing. Sometimes while at the club spinning I will pretend I am in a race and I try to beat the guy next to me!
Consistency is something I am getting good at with the rules of the house. It is nice that enforcing the rules is so much easier now than it once was.
My husband scored a 36 on a golf course this past weekend and his happiness was thrilling and catching.
Our dog Thor is having worrisome behavioral issues and we are working to teach him that attacking our kids is not acceptable.
Today was a good day.
Tomorrow will be as well.
My youngest went out of town with his girlfriend and her mother yesterday. I did not want him to go when he asked, but then I realized he was already growing up and going so I should let go a little bit and allow him to spread his wings because he really is quite capable.
My oldest should be a comedian. No Really.
I cannot do the mini triathlon I signed up for in August because of my heels. Running is not an activity I can participate in these days so instead I am looking for a good bike race to sign up for.



25 comments:
So glad the 4th was fun for all of you.
Hope you find the bike race you're looking for.
PG
My favorite lol line-- "I am grateful that now I no longer am an expert on how to lose friends and alienate people because of it."
Right?! Control freaks of the world totally get that.
I'm glad you enjoyed your weekend. Sounds like you are managing life nicely!
Cat you sound like you are in a great place right now! And you are right, it is about choice! It's nice to know that we have options isn't it? There was a time that I didn't feel that way!
I'm just looking for a bike this summer. I miss ridding, and I have finally determined that one of my dogs is just Not going to be happy with this casual walk thing - She wants to RUN and I'm thinking that a bike would be the best way to keep up with her.
Good stuff. I wish I could find the discipline to go to the gym. I had to laugh cuz when you referred to being "in the club spinning" I thought you meant like a DJ, spinning tunes "in da club." Go Cat! (urban gangsta version)
For some reason, when one of my dogs shows aggressive tendencies, it REALLY affects me. I get all depressed - maybe I think it reflects bad on me or something.
Well Cat, you should probably not wear heels when you are running. Just teasing :)
I cannot wear heals even when walking...well, all right, I never have tried -grin! (They might catch in the hem of my skirt)...OMG, I hope nobody's reading this crap--even worse, BELIEVING it!
You can get a great(and competitive) work out bike riding. My dream is to ride from ocean to ocean on a bike. There are numerous clubs that do that. (I did not say race from ocean to ocean, Cat..you just stop that..LOL)
you're sounding great once again. it's nice to read these bullets of yours...
there was a time when i would secretly race w/those around me in the gym. one of my closest friends and my daughter nicknamed me PC (psycho competitor). so i really enjoyed your line about secretly racing w/the person next to you. for me, your strongest lines, "today was a good day. Tomorrow will be as well."
i can really feel relief in your words ... many smiles to you dear Cat :-)
Cat, you are always inspiring. Check with your local cycling club. There may be some races or at least a century that you could do.
I am so glad to hear the clear mind in your voice. I am so glad that things are so much better for you and yours. And I'm not going to go after the pedaling/peddling joke - even though it's on the tip of my tongue. So to speak.
My daughter has been trying to talk me into getting a bike so I can hit the trails with them. Maybe I will.
I'm glad you and your family had a nice 4th.
Sounds like a great 4th dear friend. The hardest lesson is letting things go, letting them simply be what they will. I'm still learning that curve. You've come a long way hon. This was a light hearted read. (Hugs)Indigo
Thanks for visiting my blog...you really get that book if it sounds good to you, It's doing great for me.!
What a nice happy post.
Hi Cat
Thank you for the comment on my Six Sentences piece (I think you made it back in September). I have only just noticed - eek.
:)
Jessica
I wish that I was a bit more stubborn with myself in the gym!
It makes me sad to read that you have problems with your heels. But you are so stubborn so I guess you can do the triathlon next year and Chicago marathon and..... ;)
Doesn't Thor understand that eating children is unacceptable? It's so easy.
You just keep focusing all of that fierce energy. It's paying off for you!
You are so inspiring with your exercise.
Ughhh the gym..you reminded me I have not been :o)
ouch - what happened to your heels?
my knee has been bugging me for almost a month now, i have been riding a bike and just have started doing morning walks, not ready for jogging yet :)
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